tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2640770132113415790.post6238032995604195373..comments2024-01-30T05:30:36.418-08:00Comments on Do Your Worsted: Hypothetical Advice NeededTarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00804271498454214236noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2640770132113415790.post-16934131409222136562007-02-16T06:23:00.000-08:002007-02-16T06:23:00.000-08:00Who says you can't date them both (for now)? #1 se...Who says you can't date them both (for now)? #1 seems interested in a more casual relationship, and #2 is new which makes him less than serious. As long as you talk to #1 first to determine where he stands as far as the current relationship (does he see it going anywhere, or is it just casual fun?). Eventually, you would have to make a concrete decision, but it would be an informed decision based on an active relationship with both guys...i hope that ramble made sense. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2640770132113415790.post-38094321117193805202007-02-12T10:21:00.000-08:002007-02-12T10:21:00.000-08:00Stay with #1. Your already comfortable with him an...Stay with #1. Your already comfortable with him and he may not be offering long term right now but what if he does a month down the road? #2 is offering comfort money wise and commitment now, but is there that comfort with him that you feel with #1? The comfort is there or not from pretty much day 1, and money and looks aren't everything from #2. Now if you stayed with #1 and just broke it off gently with #2 and #1 becomes a jerk after all you still might have a chance with #2 at a later date. BUT if you did break it off with #1 to be with #2 and he becomes a jerk, then both werent ment to be and there are plenty of fish in the sea! I did not mean for that to rhyme! :) Have a good day!Monethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13155884612288703593noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2640770132113415790.post-31703376622400743242007-02-12T08:45:00.000-08:002007-02-12T08:45:00.000-08:00If you have already hurt #1 and he won't take you ...If you have already hurt #1 and he won't take you back then you might want to take some time to decide if #2 is someone you really want. It sounds like you are looking for a commitment instead of jumping from one fling to another. If #2 is someone who wants to be there for the long haul then give him a shot (even if he is a nose picker). If not, then noricum is right, being alone isn't so bad.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2640770132113415790.post-24925187640747828102007-02-12T08:09:00.000-08:002007-02-12T08:09:00.000-08:00Being alone isn't all that bad. So, it depends on...Being alone isn't all that bad. So, it depends on how happy you are with #1. If you feel there's something missing, give #2 a try... and if neither work out, there'll always be others in the future.noricumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05904523391639958451noreply@blogger.com